At some point, every one of us will reach the age where we need help with day-to-day living. Loved ones and family members will do what they can but even their help will run out. Death and separation by distance are the two most common reasons why family members can no longer provide others with the assistance they need. Before that day arrives, and it will, it is important that you make your preferences known to the individuals who will be making those life-changing decisions for you or with you.
The decision that is going to drive all other quality of life decisions is going to be whether or not a person will be able to continue living in his/her own home or whether that person will be moved to an Assisted Living Facility, also known as an ALF.
An ALF is a full-service living environment. Residents live in separate units that are set up to resemble small apartments. Residents are allowed to bring in many of their personal belongings, sometimes even their pets, in an effort to make them as comfortable as possible during their stays. Residents pay a monthly fee that generally will cover full meal service, around-the-clock certified nursing assistance, transportation to and from shopping and medical appointments, and scheduled events held both on- and off-site. In addition to individual living quarters, many ALFs also include common spaces such as a sun room, music room, library, pool, and game room. The actual services that are provided will vary based on the individual ALF.
This type of living arrangement works well for those who can afford it and for those fortunate enough to be part of a caring environment. Residents can be as involved as they choose and many benefit from the companionship, activities and care that is part of ALF living. Once part of an ALF environment, residents typically remain there until they pass away. Family is always welcome and visitation is highly encouraged.
In home care providers handle many of these same tasks with the difference being that the services are provided right at a person’s home. The person in need of care is still physically able to live in the home; he or she is just having difficulty handling some of the everyday tasks such as meal preparation, housekeeping, mail sorting, personal care and grooming, transportation, transferring from bed to chair to toilet, and other such tasks. In home care does not typically include the provision of medical care.
In home care is a great option for those who have recently lost a companion because this type of service can definitely help fill a void. Companionship is one of the biggest benefits of hiring in home help.
There are pros and cons involved with both types of living arrangements. That is why the decision as to whether living in an ALF or living independently with the help of an in home care provider should be discussed long before the need arises.
